Saturday, August 25, 2018
Thursday, April 12, 2018
You Control How Many Times A Day You Smile
Teacher behavior matters.
As a special education teacher it is often hard to control the climate and flow of my classroom. It isn't just the kids and their negative attitudes that come up after spring break. It is the para-educators coming with their negativity. It is the teachers who are stressed about testing. It is the school psychologist who is overwhelmed with paperwork and evaluations. It is your administrator being under testing season stress and has to deal with your students who just don't quite fit in.
Remember, you control how many times a day that you smile.
It's a simple thing, but when I remember to smile and to be positive I feel like I am taking control. I am not letting the overwhelming amount of negativity that surrounds me get the better of me for today.
And the thing is, about 50% of the time you are going to have others roll their eyes and say that they "live in the real world", but the other 50% of the time someone is going to smile back. And maybe that is going to make a difference for the student who is taking in the adult's around them all the time.
So remember, you are in charge of you. You are also in charge of providing a safe and civil climate for your student.
As a special education teacher it is often hard to control the climate and flow of my classroom. It isn't just the kids and their negative attitudes that come up after spring break. It is the para-educators coming with their negativity. It is the teachers who are stressed about testing. It is the school psychologist who is overwhelmed with paperwork and evaluations. It is your administrator being under testing season stress and has to deal with your students who just don't quite fit in.
Remember, you control how many times a day that you smile.
It's a simple thing, but when I remember to smile and to be positive I feel like I am taking control. I am not letting the overwhelming amount of negativity that surrounds me get the better of me for today.
And the thing is, about 50% of the time you are going to have others roll their eyes and say that they "live in the real world", but the other 50% of the time someone is going to smile back. And maybe that is going to make a difference for the student who is taking in the adult's around them all the time.
So remember, you are in charge of you. You are also in charge of providing a safe and civil climate for your student.
Wednesday, January 24, 2018
Things To Remember When Being Judged By Others
Another one that inspired me today. As a teacher you are judged constantly by everyone, and I mean everyone. It is hard to work under the microscope, but I do it because I care and am there to help kids.
Today was a bad day. Tomorrow I am going to work hard and make it a good one. That is what sets apart a good teacher from a bad one, no matter what your score on your TPEP may be.
Things You Can Control
I came across this on pinterest today and definitely needed the reminder. It is that time of year when you are tired, you haven't seen the sun in three weeks, and the kids in class are definitely feeling all of this 10x as much as you are.
When I was a teenager I used to read about a lot of different philosophies. One of them said to remember that the only thing you can control is your own behavior. I need to go into work tomorrow and choose to be in charge of that and let the rest of it go.
Remember, be calm and be good at what you do. The rest will come into place on it's own.
When I was a teenager I used to read about a lot of different philosophies. One of them said to remember that the only thing you can control is your own behavior. I need to go into work tomorrow and choose to be in charge of that and let the rest of it go.
Remember, be calm and be good at what you do. The rest will come into place on it's own.
Friday, January 5, 2018
Flexible thinking, social skills
Flexible Thinking
Recently I went to a Social Thinking conference. I loved it. It gave me so many tools on how to talk to parents about social skills goals and how to reach kids.
To start making that learning accessible to my students I made flexible thinking booklets for them, reminding them of the strategies that we are learning how to use in my social groups.
They have been a hit with my students and with the teachers that I work with who also need assistance at times in talking to their class about flexible thinking.
Strategies include:
Taking a break
Reminding yourself that you can do it
Ask a question
Ask for help
Think about the group plan
Stop and think
Tell yourself that this is a small problem
I hope that they are as helpful to you as they have been to me.
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